Who is Your God? 

Check to see if any of these gods are between you and the most high God, the creator of the Universe.

Sex – Are you in a sexual relationship or lusting after someone or something (pornography) that is not a spouse of the opposite sex that was born the opposite sex?

Cigarettes, alcohol, chocolate, or some other consumable – If you were in a situation where you could not have something unless you denied the God of Abraham could you choose God?

Your computer, computer games, books, or other object – Same question as above.

Your children, spouse, relative, pet, or other person – If you had to choose between God and anyone else where would you stand?

Recycling, using green products, taking vitamins or minerals, not wearing animal skin – Do you freak out if someone does not do things your way and revere what you revere?  It is a good thing to be a good steward of what God has provided, but good stewardship should not be your god!

Are Your Penis and Testicles Your God? 

Sure you would give your life for your God men, but what if it was deny your God and we don’t castrate you?  Would you accept castration rather than deny God?  Are you breaking the first commandment – “Thou shalt have no other gods before me”?

Adam as a Husband

When God told Adam not to eat of the Tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, Eve had not yet been created.  It was therefore Adam’s responsibility to be the leader and make sure Eve obeyed the word God had given him.  From the scripture, it appears that Adam was with her when she ate the fruit and he didn’t stop her.  In fact, he had some too. 

When God confronted Adam, Adam blamed Eve instead of being a man and taking responsibility, and when God pronounced judgment he did something no one talks about.  He said to the serpent BECAUSE you have done this, you will… and pronounced judgment.  To Eve he merely pronounced judgment.  You will… and told her what would happen.  To Adam he said BECAUSE you have listened to your wife, you will… and pronounced judgment. 

God does not appear to blame Eve for her actions even though she suffers the consequences.  He blames the Serpent and Adam.  Because of this, I wonder if God will hold women as accountable as their husbands when their husband’s aren’t Godly leaders and don’t protect their wives from the beguilement of Sin and Satan. (Genesis 3) 

Abraham as a Husband

While many people blame Sarah for a lack of faith in waiting for a child, I see the whole situation totally differently.

Twice Abraham was willing to pimp Sarah out to men who wanted her to save his own skin.  This is a horrible thing to do to your wife. 

When Abraham was promised a child, I believe that he pressured and blamed Sarah for not getting pregnant to the point that, in desperation, she gave HER husband into the arms of another woman.  As any woman knows, unless you can’t stand your husband or he has driven you to it, you are not going to encourage him to have a physical or emotional affair with another woman.  

Men and women are different in their approach to life as evidenced by all the men preachers who can’t see this perspective at all.  Never in all the many times I have heard these stories have I ever heard a man preacher understand that Abraham so betrayed Sarah and violated her trust by forcing her into rape situations from which God had to protect her.  Nor do they find it strange for her to so violate every thing a woman would feel to say go sleep with someone else.   All they see is her supposed lack of faith.  What this says to me is the GREAT lack of understanding in male preachers for the very basics of how women think and feel. 
 

Talking to Dead People

What is Gods Heart?  God says, "Don't consult the dead."  What does God mean?  He is the one to be consulted if you have questions or needs, not dead people.  If you have ever paid a consultant’s fee, you know the difference between a consultant and chatting with a friend.  Jesus preached to the dead during the 3 days he was dead before he was raised from the dead. (1 Peter 4:4-6) Obviously preaching to dead people is acceptable and, since they haven't entered judgment yet, there is still hope for the lost ones.  That is why Jesus preached to them.  God is not trying to keep people away from him.  He wants all people to come to Him.  If you believe you are in contact with one or more dead people, clearly encouraging them to know God is quite acceptable.  JUST DON'T MAKE THEM YOUR GOD OR ASK THEM FOR WISDOM YOU SHOULD BE
GETTING FROM GOD.

Intersex vs. Gay Men Enlightenment Class

Intersex people are those who are born with sexual birth defects.  They are born medically with aspects of both male and female genders in their body physically and chromosomally.  I see nothing in the Bible to indicate that these people should have surgery to change their body to conform with a male / female world, yet at the same time I sees no Biblical problem with doing so.  People would not hesitate to surgically correct other birth defects.

Also, as in other birth defects, there is no shame in how you were born.  You didn't choose how you were born, into what family, into wealth or poverty, into Christian or heathen homes, ugly or beautiful, or anything else.  Homosexuality, same sex attraction, or variations, which do NOT involve sexual birth defects, are choice, just as you choose after birth how you live your life in other ways.

On the other hand, I have personally seen a hard core, outed gay pride parade participant, male homosexual attracted to a female, a male couple breaking up because of attraction to the female, and a homosexual man in full-blown AIDS with a T-Cell count of 2 (almost nonexistent testosterone levels) yet there he was aroused, which could be seen through his clothes - AND he was talking marriage.  They just needed to know the right non-threatening female.  (I modestly admits to being the afore mentioned, all-female chick.)

Intersex people are NOT homosexual unless they are attracted to other Intersex people.  They do themselves no favor in aligning themselves with homosexuals.  Christians don't understand "homosexuals" saying they are born that way, because we know they aren't.  The confusion, for Christians, is in their not understanding that Intersex people throw themselves in with homosexuals.  Another problem is in Christians not understanding that Intersex people even exist.  Of course some "Christians" are Learning Disabled or Close-Minded in realizing that sexual birth defects exist.  I tried to explain it to one hardheaded man who was a lay leader in the church and was unsuccessful.   These are the same people who don't understand that conception doesn't occur until several days after sex, so a morning after pill is not abortion.

Some of the ways I have heard of Intersex manifesting itself it is in an XX body with XY chromosomes, an XY body with XX chromosomes, a body with either a large cliterous or a small penis - who can tell - and XX or XY chromosomes, XXY chromosomes in an XX or XY body, undescended testicles, a penis totally grown inside the body giving a physical appearance of a female without a vagina, someone with both male and female sex organs - one or the other under developed, XX chromosomes in one part of the body and XY chromosomes in another part of the same body, etc.  This is hard-core science.

We need a third sex for people who are not clearly male or female and those who want to change their sex.  That is not possible – you can only change the outside, not your DNA, skeletal structure and other things you are born with.  A man will NEVER be a woman and a woman will NEVER be a man.  The most they can be is Intersex – a combination.  This is very well illustrated by the “man” who used to be a woman and is now pregnant.

Believers Partnering With Unbelievers

2 Corinthians 6:14-18 Do not try to work together as equals with unbelievers, for it cannot be done.  How can right and wrong be partners?  How can light and darkness live together?  How can Christ and the Devil agree?  What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?  How can God's temple come to terms with pagan idols?  For we are the temple of the living God!  As God himself has said, "I will make my home with my people and live among them; I will be their God, and they shall be my people."  And so the Lord says, "You must leave them and separate yourselves from them.  Have nothing to do with what is unclean, and I will accept you.  I will be your father, and you shall be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty."

2 Corinthians 7:1 All these promises are made to us, my dear friends.  So then, let us purify ourselves from everything that makes body or soul unclean, and let us be completely holy by living in awe of God.